Remember back to before the conflicts, when everything was in order and peaceful. Remember that a peaceful clear frame of mind is truly the only goal. Make effort to see how you keep your clear mental pictures even when dealing with negative environments and people, notice how things sometimes 'bring you down,' and how you 'keep yourself up.' Being 'in the world but not of it' is keeping your pure thoughts and feelings amid the firey madness, but mentaly not stepping out of the sacred circle; you can stay true to your blessed peace of mind.
Thank you again Teo.
I forgot how long this post is.